Pre-suasion Day 6 🧠 Unity


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“The experience of unity is not about simple similarities... it's about shared identities." - Robert Cialdini

Read time: 3.4 minutes

Taylor Swift has some realllllllllllllly diehard fans…

Her fans will camp out for 8 hours to get concert tickets or pay $2678 to a scalper for a ticket that originally cost $79.

They’re also extremely loyal and constantly jump to defend her online. (Taylor actually had to ask fans to stop cyberbullying her ex, John Mayer 😬)

Why are some of Taylor’s fans so intense?

Because they’re not just fans—they’re “Swifties.”

A “Swiftie” is a name fans use to describe themselves.

(Which Taylor cleverly trademarked.)

Being a Swiftie is part of their united identity.

And, if you want people to buy the stuff you’re selling, creating a sense of unity with buyers is very pre-suasive…

🧠 The Science Behind Unity

Wanna hear something slightly unsettling?

You’re more likely to help an injured person if they share a common identity with you.

It’s true.

For example, in one study, bystanders were more likely to help an injured person if they were wearing a football jersey of a team the bystander liked.

Knowing the injured person was also a fan of the same sports team made bystanders feel like they were helping someone who shared a common identity.

They weren’t helping a stranger—they were helping one of their own.

When we feel united with a group, our sense of self gets entangled with that of the group.

Humans are tribal creatures. From an evolutionary perspective, we need others to survive, which is why we’re more easily influenced by people in our “in-group.”

Your “in-group” includes other people who share a common identity. Your family is part of your in-group along with other people of the same race, nationality, or political and religious views.

Two categories of factors lead to a sense of “we-ness”:

  1. Being together (e.g. being from the same place, sharing the same ethnic background, being related, sharing a united identity like a “mom” or “entrepreneur”)
  2. Acting together (e.g. rooting for the same sports team, walking together in unison)


Have you ever met someone from your home city (or even country) while traveling abroad? I bet you felt an instant bond even though they were a stranger.

That’s the power of unity.

Acting in unison is also shockingly persuasive.

Research shows that simply having people walk together with a stranger in lockstep makes them act more generously towards each other.

Participants who walked in lockstep with a stranger were 50% more likely to share a financial reward with their walking partner equally vs. the control group that didn’t walk side-by-side.

Going through an experience in unison makes us identify with the people that shared the experience. It removes the “me” and “you” and replaces it with “we.”

Acting in unison unites us—even with complete strangers.

Smart brands understand the power of unity…


🤓 Pre-suasion in the Wild

When Steve Jobs returned to Apple in 1997, the company was on the brink of bankruptcy.

Steve Jobs did something that seemed crazy at the time...

He slashed Apple’s product line by 80%, going from 20+ computers to only 2. He stopped trying to sell computers to businesses, a huge segment of Apple’s buyers at the time, and focused on selling directly to consumers.

Why was Steve confident that his strategy would work? Because he knew exactly who Apple was for.

Apple’s most famous ad campaign appealed to “the crazy ones,” “the rebels,” “the ones who think different.”

By speaking directly to people who saw themselves as “rebels” and “misfits,” Apple created a sense of unity among customers.

Owning an Apple product helped people to showcase their shared identity.

And it worked… crazily well.

Apple created legions of “Macheads.” For hardcore Apple fans, the brand triggers a reaction in the brain that's similar to how the brains of religious devotees react to gospels.

Steve understood the pre-suasive power of unity.

And I’m following Steve’s lead with Un-ignorable…

Building your personal brand is a “shortcut” to business growth.

Neal and I have both learned this firsthand, which is why we’re so passionate about helping other hardworking entrepreneurs to do the same.

We created UNIGNORABLE exclusively for ambitious entrepreneurs.

(Not people who dream of maybe starting a business "someday" or people who want to be full-time influencers.)

Entrepreneurs already have stories to tell. They're in the trenches building a business and they have a unique point of view to share. They just need to reach more of the right people.

Eric completed UNIGNORABLE and built his LinkedIn following to 115,000 in only 6 months after joining.

Today he has more than 1,000,000 followers.

And Alex Smith hit 60,000 followers within a few months of completing UNIGNORABLE.

Today, Alex has more than 126,000 LinkedIn followers. And he recently launched his first online course, allowing him to scale his consulting business.

Eric and Alex's LinkedIn growth was fast, but it took them both years to build the expertise they freely share on LinkedIn.

We want to bring smart entrepreneurs like Eric and Alex together to work towards a similar goal.

The people who join may be at different stages of their entrepreneurial journey...

Some may be just getting started.

Others may be looking to transition from an existing business to something new.

And others may be serial entrepreneurs who have built and operated multiple businesses.

Their stories may be different but they all share an important commonality:

They're smart entrepreneurs who recognize that building their personal brand will drive business growth.

Simply put, when people share a common identity and come together to act in unity, BIG things happen.

UNIGNORABLE won't ever be a trillion-dollar company like Apple…

(That’s not the kind of company Neal and I ever wanted to build. And it may not be what you want either.)

But I wouldn’t be surprised if “the next Steve Jobs” was an UNIGNORABLE alumni.

After all…

People want to buy from people.

Ok. Now let’s find your people ⬇️

🎯 Today’s Pre-suasion Challenge

There’s only one question to answer in the final pre-suasion challenge.

What united identity do your buyers share?

  • Are they crazy ones and misfits?
  • Are they world-changers?
  • Are they working moms?
  • Are they contrarian thinkers?
  • Are they solopreneurs?

Speaking to people who share a united identity attracts your people.

Think about it and write down your answer.

Feel free to hit reply and share with me for extra accountability.

(If you’re not entirely clear on who you serve, joining UNIGNORABLE will help you figure it out.)

💥 The Short of It

Effective marketing PRIMES people to be receptive to a pitch BEFORE they hear it.

If you want to maximize the odds that people will buy what you’re selling, you must first pre-suade them to be in the right frame of mind.

Pre-suasive entrepreneurs leave little crumbs in their content and social profiles that makes people think, “Hmm. I really like this person.”

Pre-suasion is about:

→ Strategically directing attention to your big ideas…

→ You want to link your brand with memorable phrases, topics, and emotions…

→ You want to be likeable

→ And showcase your credibility...

→ And if you really want to persuade someone to love your brand, unite your tribe around a shared mission or experience

This is how you build a loyal audience and become a magnet for your ideal customers.

If you apply everything you’ve learned in the last 6 days and put in the work to build an un-ignorable personal brand…

Next time you’re ready to sell, people will be ready to buy.

I’m not saying any of this is easy. But, believe me… it’s worth it.


With ❤️, from Katelyn

Katelyn Bourgoin
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